Get You a Woman

Genesis 2:18-22

Then the LORD God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper as his partner.” So out of the ground the LORD God formed every animal of the field and every bird of the air, and brought them to the man to see what he would call them; and whatever the man called every living creature, that was its name. The man gave names to all cattle, and to the birds of the air, and to every animal of the field; but for the man there was not found a helper as his partner. So the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon the man, and he slept; then he took one of his ribs and closed up its place with flesh. And the rib that the LORD God had taken from the man he made into a woman and brought her to the man.

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Leroy, boy, you're my friend
You say how and I'll say when
Come and meet me down the street
Take a seat, it's my treat
You may not ever get this chance again
That empty feeling's just about to end.

We gotta get you a woman,
It's like nothin' else to make you feel sure you're alive.
We gotta get you a woman,
We better get walkin', we're wastin' time talkin' now.

Todd Rundgren, We Gotta Get You a Woman

There's a lot of hay that can be made about the sexist imagery in both the scripture and the song. I'm going to acknowledge that there is hay to be made and leave it in the field because there is something far more important said in both of these. It's as simple as this, we humans are not meant to be alone.

God knew that, Adam knew that too when he started naming stuff. There were a lot of good things in creation, shoot, all of creation was good. Still there wasn't a partner to be had in all of creation. So the Lord God made it so.

It is still not good for any of us today to be alone. We are called to live in community. That means the church. That means family. That doesn't mean that there are not times when we need a sabbath from one another. But there must still be a place where that person can be at home for support and love.

Just one more note about the language. The Hebrew word for "helper" is used in scripture several times. Usually it is used for kings and rulers meeting other kings and rulers. These helpers are peers and they are powerful. Where one is powerful, two together can meet the world come what may. In Genesis, the man's powerful peer helper is the woman. Together they are more than they are separately. This is the partner the Lord God intends us to have and the partner the Lord God intends us to be.

How badly do we all need that sort of partner, as Todd sings, And when we're through with you, we'll get me one too.